Friday, 4 November 2011

!!!!Heart Matters!!!!

My Understandings...
             Regarding how we need to prepare ourselves for the marraige....? (after attending the session by Jacob...;) )

Seems,
         "In a Hurry, We will marry with pleasure & we will worry in leisure" though i dont no much enough about that part, just felt like we need to prepare our selves first before going for it.

Because,
         "Marraige is not a funny incident, its a Commitment what we needs to give for the other person and it is a Comfortness what we feel with the other"

I Believes in the statement, "The wife & Husband should behave as a Best friends to make their relationship Sweeter & Happier" 

Does not matter whether its a Marraige or any form of relation ship between two people, the Understanding & the Adjustment  between those two persons are mandatory.

Though our culture have a high recognition for the values what it posses, there are the concerns too...

Love or Arranged what ever may be the type of marraige, we need to look the following things for a successful life.
  •        The type of lifestyles & the work they do
  •        Behaviour of the persons
  •        Kind of Environment we have around 
  •        Back ground of the Family
  •        Likes & Dislikes
  •        Individual Values
  •        Willingness to listen & Communicate
  •        Cultural fit
  •        Patience of the individuals
  •        Adjustment & Understanding abilities 
  •        Trust
Ofcourse, than guys girls need to adjust more in the indian scenario out of necessity, where they will enter into a completely different families.They need to be more patient enough to take the proactive part in influencing the people and mingle along with them, and love all as well as being loved by all. How ever difficult the situation is, it takes time to adjust but not impossible with our efforts.
 
Though theoritical & the practical life is entirely different, though we are completely unaware of our future prospects, though life means uncertain, though we believe in fate, specifically with respect to the people we meet & people who will be there with us forever. What may be the Relation or How ever may be the feel, Ultimately what MATTERS IS HEART  ...

             .......Lets Hope Everyones Will Have Their Happy Life Long Love & Fun..........





1 comment:

  1. I beg to differ. Marriage is a burden if you don't have your life planned out. I really don't understand the real concept of it.

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